Smack That

"Really? Your here to loose weight? Why? Your cute, man. You can bag chicks easily!", was the first compliment that I got from him. Him is a guy who goes to my gym, in fact he's one of the trainer. The guy who I refer to for everything is the owner of the gym. He has three people under his rule - two guys and a girl. Him happens to be one of those two guys.

I thanked him for his compliment but didn't exactly pay attention to it. You know your over-weight when you have big ass love handles. I wanted to loose weight. I wanted to give my life some sort of push forward and building a healthier body seemed like a great way to start. Further more, I had already gotten the membership so I might as well put it to good use.

Of the two sub-trainers, he's the friendlier one. The other guy although very polite and helping, doesn't really talk to anybody on his own. If you approach him asking for help he would respond and help you how ever he can. Except for when he's talking two or three members I have never seen him laugh or crack a smile.

The other dude is the polar opposite of him. He's talks with everyone, notices subtle changes in body and makes sure he lets the person know. He laughs and jokes. If he spots someone doing something wrong, he would immediately come over to correct that person. If the person is welcoming to his help, he would help even more. He's a real social butterfly! I really can't play favorites. I like them both equally. While I trust them both, I favor the sober one more when it comes to advice because I believe he has a better body. Also I can not let any excuse of talking to him slip pass me. No way! No how!

It's been about four months since I started going to the gym regularly and the changes have been tremendous. I weigh 74 kgs right now, I started off from 81kgs. My waist line has also decreases and I can feel I am nearer to a healthier version of me. A friend of mine and my mother have noticed the starting of some muscle developement. So in all, I would say that things are going in a good direction, but there is alot more distance to cover. Quite obviously, Mr. Trainer has also noticed these changes and has complimented me a few more times. And here's the thing - those compliments seem flirty to me.

I don't think he's gay or bi. I really don't but then things like these throw me off. And what happened today was way beyond and above getting thrown off. I was literally vaulted twenty feet into the air and dropped back on my bum. Go over the details and tell me what do you conclude. Once I have his deal figured out, I can act appropriately. If he flirts, I'll flirt back. If he jokes, I'll joke back. If he shoves his tongue down my throat, you can bet your money I won't think twice before doing the same. But before all that I would really like to get to know what's going in his head.

So I was at my gym today around four in the afternoon. It was a holiday today and a very important religious day for that so not many people had come to the gym. When I arrived, there were only two guys and one lady there besides the trainers. I went to the locker room and changed into shorts and a t-shirt. While walking back to the weight room, I noticed that one of my shoe laces was untied. Too lazy to crouch down, I propped my foot on a rising and bent over.

Out of no where red hot pain strikes me with the force of lightening and shoots up my spine. I cuss and look up to see Mr. Trainer walking by with a giant smile on his face. He gives me a wink just before he enters the weight room and disappears. I prop myself against a wall nursing my probably swollen ass cheek with a semi hard-on in my shorts. I am excited and embarrassed at the same time.

I would admit right here right now that I have a spanking fetish. Caught you by surprise, didn't I? LOL!

I really don't know how to explain this one. But then again, I can really not think of any logical reasons for any of my other fetishes. But let's keep it to spanking for now. So yeah, I'm into spanking. Not the BDSM kind, but a naughty playful kind. I don't like to turn people's asses beet red. I do not like paddles, whips or what ever is it that people use. I prefer the touch of skin on skin. If I see an ass I like, I would like to spank it. Nathan knows about this very well. But for the first time, the roles had been reversed in my mind. I was the spankee - is that even a word?.

I so wanted to grab his hand and drag him to the locker room. Slam him against one of those tiled walls and let him do whatever the heck he wanted to do with me. But I calmed myself down, entered the weight room and did whatever I was supposed to trying to the best of my abilities to give him the impression that I really didn't care. However everytime I saw that bicep flex, I could feel my heart beat faster.

He's definitely not relationship material, and I do not want to be in a relationship right now. If it's casual fun he wants, I think I can go ahead with it. He's definitely yummy. Really really yummy!

What do you guys have to say? 

Smack That

"Really? Your here to loose weight? Why? Your cute, man. You can bag chicks easily!", was the first compliment that I got from him. Him is a guy who goes to my gym, in fact he's one of the trainer. The guy who I refer to for everything is the owner of the gym. He has three people under his rule - two guys and a girl. Him happens to be one of those two guys.

I thanked him for his compliment but didn't exactly pay attention to it. You know your over-weight when you have big ass love handles. I wanted to loose weight. I wanted to give my life some sort of push forward and building a healthier body seemed like a great way to start. Further more, I had already gotten the membership so I might as well put it to good use.

Of the two sub-trainers, he's the friendlier one. The other guy although very polite and helping, doesn't really talk to anybody on his own. If you approach him asking for help he would respond and help you how ever he can. Except for when he's talking two or three members I have never seen him laugh or crack a smile.

The other dude is the polar opposite of him. He's talks with everyone, notices subtle changes in body and makes sure he lets the person know. He laughs and jokes. If he spots someone doing something wrong, he would immediately come over to correct that person. If the person is welcoming to his help, he would help even more. He's a real social butterfly! I really can't play favorites. I like them both equally. While I trust them both, I favor the sober one more when it comes to advice because I believe he has a better body. Also I can not let any excuse of talking to him slip pass me. No way! No how!

It's been about four months since I started going to the gym regularly and the changes have been tremendous. I weigh 74 kgs right now, I started off from 81kgs. My waist line has also decreases and I can feel I am nearer to a healthier version of me. A friend of mine and my mother have noticed the starting of some muscle developement. So in all, I would say that things are going in a good direction, but there is alot more distance to cover. Quite obviously, Mr. Trainer has also noticed these changes and has complimented me a few more times. And here's the thing - those compliments seem flirty to me.

I don't think he's gay or bi. I really don't but then things like these throw me off. And what happened today was way beyond and above getting thrown off. I was literally vaulted twenty feet into the air and dropped back on my bum. Go over the details and tell me what do you conclude. Once I have his deal figured out, I can act appropriately. If he flirts, I'll flirt back. If he jokes, I'll joke back. If he shoves his tongue down my throat, you can bet your money I won't think twice before doing the same. But before all that I would really like to get to know what's going in his head.

So I was at my gym today around four in the afternoon. It was a holiday today and a very important religious day for that so not many people had come to the gym. When I arrived, there were only two guys and one lady there besides the trainers. I went to the locker room and changed into shorts and a t-shirt. While walking back to the weight room, I noticed that one of my shoe laces was untied. Too lazy to crouch down, I propped my foot on a rising and bent over.

Out of no where red hot pain strikes me with the force of lightening and shoots up my spine. I cuss and look up to see Mr. Trainer walking by with a giant smile on his face. He gives me a wink just before he enters the weight room and disappears. I prop myself against a wall nursing my probably swollen ass cheek with a semi hard-on in my shorts. I am excited and embarrassed at the same time.

I would admit right here right now that I have a spanking fetish. Caught you by surprise, didn't I? LOL!

I really don't know how to explain this one. But then again, I can really not think of any logical reasons for any of my other fetishes. But let's keep it to spanking for now. So yeah, I'm into spanking. Not the BDSM kind, but a naughty playful kind. I don't like to turn people's asses beet red. I do not like paddles, whips or what ever is it that people use. I prefer the touch of skin on skin. If I see an ass I like, I would like to spank it. Nathan knows about this very well. But for the first time, the roles had been reversed in my mind. I was the spankee - is that even a word?.

I so wanted to grab his hand and drag him to the locker room. Slam him against one of those tiled walls and let him do whatever the heck he wanted to do with me. But I calmed myself down, entered the weight room and did whatever I was supposed to trying to the best of my abilities to give him the impression that I really didn't care. However everytime I saw that bicep flex, I could feel my heart beat faster.

He's definitely not relationship material, and I do not want to be in a relationship right now. If it's casual fun he wants, I think I can go ahead with it. He's definitely yummy. Really really yummy!

What do you guys have to say? 

Hot Shiatsu Japanese Traditional Massage

Shiatsu Japanese Traditional Massage

Shiatsu massages are a traditional Japanese massage. It involves the use of fingers, although it also utilizes heavily both the palms and the thumbs in locating and relieving the body’s accu pressure points. This kind of massage technique also involves the chopping and kneading massage technique which is known as a great help in freeing up tensed muscles and relieving the pressure in them. In recent years, the Shiatsu massage technique has become a popular trend in the massaging service market due to its therapeutic benefits although it has not been proven if Shiatsu can cure several ailments.

The Shiatsu massage technique has long been revered for its unparalleled relaxing and therapeutic benefits to our body.They provide a certain kind of relief and relaxing feeling that no other massaging techniques can provide. Shiatsu massage therapy can leave a more relaxed and less stressful feel to a person.Moreover, the Shiatsu massage technique is of great help in minimizing the symptoms of several ailments, particularly those of the muscles and joints.However, finding a good a massage parlor that offers Shiatsu massage has become harder nowadays. Due to the recognition of Shiatsu massages as a form of therapy, a person must first get an official certification to practice the said massage therapy. Finding a qualified or a certified person who can deliver the Shiatsu massage therapy has become an even tougher task. Moreover, due to this constraint, there are only a few qualified people who can deliver Shiatsu massage services.

Most of us are also reluctant to go out and drive just to look for a massage. Many of us are preoccupied with work and are too tired to even think of going out for a massage. In other words, the busy and exhausting nature of our work prevents us from having a good Shiatsu massage. The good news is that technology has paved the way for the emergence of shiatsu massage chairs which allow us to enjoy massages right at the comforts of our home.Shiatsu massage chairs are amongst the top breakthrough technologies in massage recliner chairs industry. This electric massage chair can deliver the same exact therapy of Shiatsu massages that we can get from the massage parlors. These massager chairs have the ability to mimic the trained hands of masseurs which allow us to enjoy the same relaxing feel and relief we can get from massage parlors. In addition, these massager chairs are user friendly, they just need to be plugged in and you can enjoy massages any time you would want.

Shiatsu massage chairs are widely accessible in the market. Japanese brands of electric massage chair that provide Shiatsu massage technique are the top choices among other brands, although American and European brands have also emerged throughout the years. These massage chairs are affordable and usually, the price varies in proportion with the features present in the massage chair.These massage chairs also cater to varying body needs and massage requirements so it is important that we become aware of our body’s needs and requirements.

Hot Shiatsu Japanese Traditional Massage

Shiatsu Japanese Traditional Massage

Shiatsu massages are a traditional Japanese massage. It involves the use of fingers, although it also utilizes heavily both the palms and the thumbs in locating and relieving the body’s accu pressure points. This kind of massage technique also involves the chopping and kneading massage technique which is known as a great help in freeing up tensed muscles and relieving the pressure in them. In recent years, the Shiatsu massage technique has become a popular trend in the massaging service market due to its therapeutic benefits although it has not been proven if Shiatsu can cure several ailments.

The Shiatsu massage technique has long been revered for its unparalleled relaxing and therapeutic benefits to our body.They provide a certain kind of relief and relaxing feeling that no other massaging techniques can provide. Shiatsu massage therapy can leave a more relaxed and less stressful feel to a person.Moreover, the Shiatsu massage technique is of great help in minimizing the symptoms of several ailments, particularly those of the muscles and joints.However, finding a good a massage parlor that offers Shiatsu massage has become harder nowadays. Due to the recognition of Shiatsu massages as a form of therapy, a person must first get an official certification to practice the said massage therapy. Finding a qualified or a certified person who can deliver the Shiatsu massage therapy has become an even tougher task. Moreover, due to this constraint, there are only a few qualified people who can deliver Shiatsu massage services.

Most of us are also reluctant to go out and drive just to look for a massage. Many of us are preoccupied with work and are too tired to even think of going out for a massage. In other words, the busy and exhausting nature of our work prevents us from having a good Shiatsu massage. The good news is that technology has paved the way for the emergence of shiatsu massage chairs which allow us to enjoy massages right at the comforts of our home.Shiatsu massage chairs are amongst the top breakthrough technologies in massage recliner chairs industry. This electric massage chair can deliver the same exact therapy of Shiatsu massages that we can get from the massage parlors. These massager chairs have the ability to mimic the trained hands of masseurs which allow us to enjoy the same relaxing feel and relief we can get from massage parlors. In addition, these massager chairs are user friendly, they just need to be plugged in and you can enjoy massages any time you would want.

Shiatsu massage chairs are widely accessible in the market. Japanese brands of electric massage chair that provide Shiatsu massage technique are the top choices among other brands, although American and European brands have also emerged throughout the years. These massage chairs are affordable and usually, the price varies in proportion with the features present in the massage chair.These massage chairs also cater to varying body needs and massage requirements so it is important that we become aware of our body’s needs and requirements.

Hot Studying about Hair Removal Treatments

Different hair removal treatments are used to remove unwanted hair from our bodies. Some of the most commonly sought after places such as the armpits, chest, face, legs, head, eyebrows, back, abdomen, and pubic area. The market is full of hair removing products and hair removal treatments which have made it easier for the customer to purchase whatever they want that suits their skin and hair type. Hair removal treatments can be divided into a few categories which include temporary hair removal treatments, permanent hair removal treatments, hair growth inhibitors, etc.
Temporary hair removal treatments include both depilation and epilation. Depilation is the removal of only part of the hair, which is on the surface of the skin. Shaving is one of the most commonly used forms of hair removal. Additionally, chemical depilatories such as creams and shaving powders are used to dissolve the hair. Epilation is a hair removal treatment that removes the entire hair from the root itself. Epilation hair removal treatments includes different forms such as; waxing, plucking with tweezers, threading, sugaring, and using epilators such as mechanical tweezers.
Permanent hair removal treatments include a variety of options that give out long lasting results. These options use various kinds of chemicals and energies. Sometimes this method is used separately  and sometimes it is used as a combination with another treatment and is targeted on areas that has unwanted hair and inhibit the growth of hair. Methods such as laser hair removal, electrolysis and intense pulse light are commonly used for permanent hair removal treatments.
During the laser hair removal treatment process, a laser is usually targeted at the hair follicles, destroying them. This is done without damaging the surrounding skin areas. The process should be carried out by a qualified doctor. This method is a safe treatment yet painful and quite expensive.
Hair growth inhibitor treatments include the consumption of prescribed medicines such as oral medications and also using topical creams that are clinically proven to slow the growth of hair in a persons face, etc. Vaniqa is a cream that is prescribed for women aged 12 and above. Application of the cream helps in the reduction of unwanted facial hair. Some use this in conjunction with another hair removal method to get best results.
Apart from the above methods, there are doubtful hair removal treatments that are in practice but are not clinically proven for its efficiency and effectiveness. These methods include; electric tweezers, usage of microwaves, photoepilators, transdermal electrolysis, etc. Since many of these methods aren’t tested and does not have adequate clinical data, consumers are advised to avoid using such methods.

Hot Studying about Hair Removal Treatments

Different hair removal treatments are used to remove unwanted hair from our bodies. Some of the most commonly sought after places such as the armpits, chest, face, legs, head, eyebrows, back, abdomen, and pubic area. The market is full of hair removing products and hair removal treatments which have made it easier for the customer to purchase whatever they want that suits their skin and hair type. Hair removal treatments can be divided into a few categories which include temporary hair removal treatments, permanent hair removal treatments, hair growth inhibitors, etc.
Temporary hair removal treatments include both depilation and epilation. Depilation is the removal of only part of the hair, which is on the surface of the skin. Shaving is one of the most commonly used forms of hair removal. Additionally, chemical depilatories such as creams and shaving powders are used to dissolve the hair. Epilation is a hair removal treatment that removes the entire hair from the root itself. Epilation hair removal treatments includes different forms such as; waxing, plucking with tweezers, threading, sugaring, and using epilators such as mechanical tweezers.
Permanent hair removal treatments include a variety of options that give out long lasting results. These options use various kinds of chemicals and energies. Sometimes this method is used separately  and sometimes it is used as a combination with another treatment and is targeted on areas that has unwanted hair and inhibit the growth of hair. Methods such as laser hair removal, electrolysis and intense pulse light are commonly used for permanent hair removal treatments.
During the laser hair removal treatment process, a laser is usually targeted at the hair follicles, destroying them. This is done without damaging the surrounding skin areas. The process should be carried out by a qualified doctor. This method is a safe treatment yet painful and quite expensive.
Hair growth inhibitor treatments include the consumption of prescribed medicines such as oral medications and also using topical creams that are clinically proven to slow the growth of hair in a persons face, etc. Vaniqa is a cream that is prescribed for women aged 12 and above. Application of the cream helps in the reduction of unwanted facial hair. Some use this in conjunction with another hair removal method to get best results.
Apart from the above methods, there are doubtful hair removal treatments that are in practice but are not clinically proven for its efficiency and effectiveness. These methods include; electric tweezers, usage of microwaves, photoepilators, transdermal electrolysis, etc. Since many of these methods aren’t tested and does not have adequate clinical data, consumers are advised to avoid using such methods.

Hot Life insurance policy - get term life whole life and universal life insurance policy

No two people are alike, have the same interests and even bank balances. Our financial profiles are different. The selection policy of life insurance rate is the difference in choosing a product. This is an individual decision based on the personalization of individual factors. policy good for me may not be suitable for you. This is why choosing the right policy will consist in evaluating different types of life insurance available and see which one suits your needs.

Life Insurance Policies


Term Life Insurance Policy

This is the most popular type of policy. As its name suggests, this policy is available for a certain period of time - somewhere between 1 and 30. It is not a permanent policy. It is essentially an annual payment of premiums during the period of duration of death benefits for beneficiaries of the insured. This type of policy is popular because the premiums are cheap and death benefits are high. There are many options in a life insurance policy period as a return of premium (ROP) and level term life policy.

You'll have to study each type of new policies, and what are the possibilities within each. There are several online sites that offer easy to understand information and articles that can guide you further, so you are able to choose the best policy to suit your needs. Most people prefer term life insurance and he considers the best way to meet their insurance needs without having to pay big premium.

Whole Or Permanent Life Insurance Life Insurance

As the name suggests, this type of life insurance is permanent. You have to pay the premiums of life, or even at the age of 100 In short, a life insurance policy that combines life savings. Over the years, such a policy places a monetary value that can be revoked if necessary.Universal Life Insurance policy

This type of policy is equivalent to a whole life insurance policy, except that the policyholder has more control over policy. The policy is divided into 3 main elements:

 The cash element
 The rate component

The protective element

The insurance company invests the premiums in the third investment fund in the scope of the company and the interest accruing on these policies (cash). Each month, certain administrative expenses are deducted (cost element) This type of policy also provides greater flexibility to the insured -. The prize amount can be changed and the face value of the policy may change at any time.

Another type of life insurance universal variable universal life insurance. Insured to play a more active role in the choice of stocks and shares to the perimeter of the society. This type of policy is highly subject to market risks, and therefore often oscillates in the gain or loss.

Hot Life insurance policy - get term life whole life and universal life insurance policy

No two people are alike, have the same interests and even bank balances. Our financial profiles are different. The selection policy of life insurance rate is the difference in choosing a product. This is an individual decision based on the personalization of individual factors. policy good for me may not be suitable for you. This is why choosing the right policy will consist in evaluating different types of life insurance available and see which one suits your needs.

Life Insurance Policies


Term Life Insurance Policy

This is the most popular type of policy. As its name suggests, this policy is available for a certain period of time - somewhere between 1 and 30. It is not a permanent policy. It is essentially an annual payment of premiums during the period of duration of death benefits for beneficiaries of the insured. This type of policy is popular because the premiums are cheap and death benefits are high. There are many options in a life insurance policy period as a return of premium (ROP) and level term life policy.

You'll have to study each type of new policies, and what are the possibilities within each. There are several online sites that offer easy to understand information and articles that can guide you further, so you are able to choose the best policy to suit your needs. Most people prefer term life insurance and he considers the best way to meet their insurance needs without having to pay big premium.

Whole Or Permanent Life Insurance Life Insurance

As the name suggests, this type of life insurance is permanent. You have to pay the premiums of life, or even at the age of 100 In short, a life insurance policy that combines life savings. Over the years, such a policy places a monetary value that can be revoked if necessary.Universal Life Insurance policy

This type of policy is equivalent to a whole life insurance policy, except that the policyholder has more control over policy. The policy is divided into 3 main elements:

 The cash element
 The rate component

The protective element

The insurance company invests the premiums in the third investment fund in the scope of the company and the interest accruing on these policies (cash). Each month, certain administrative expenses are deducted (cost element) This type of policy also provides greater flexibility to the insured -. The prize amount can be changed and the face value of the policy may change at any time.

Another type of life insurance universal variable universal life insurance. Insured to play a more active role in the choice of stocks and shares to the perimeter of the society. This type of policy is highly subject to market risks, and therefore often oscillates in the gain or loss.

Hot Body Care for a Beautiful and Healthy Body

Body Care for a Beautiful and Healthy Body

Who doesn’t desire to have a beautiful body? The answer to this question is that every single person would crave to have one. Taking care of your body is as good as applying makeup every day. A beautiful body is all about taking good care of you and there are different ways of doing it. Using cosmetics can only help to beautify you externally but anything natural will keep your body healthy and fresh from within. People follow different methods to have a good body. Below are a few that you can follow to get the desired result.Body Care Tips

If the cause of your problem is excess cellulite then there are ways to take care of this as well. Natural way is the best way to get rid of this problem. Take two drops of fennel essential oils, two drops of rosemary oil and two tablespoons of almond oil. Make a mixture of all these oils and massage every day. This will relieve you from this problem.

The best way to remove makeup is using almond oil. Since it is rich in vitamin E it leaves the skin soft and smooth. It can be used for any skin type and it nourishes the skin really well.

A regular massage with essential oils is known to relieve the body from stress and tension. Massage your body before a shower and take a warm water bath. Your body will get rejuvenated and you’ll feel fresh. This also helps in keeping your body healthy.

People who have dark patches on the face or anywhere on the body can rub a slice of lemon. Lemon helps to lighten the dark patches but remember that if you have sensitive skin, it is not for you.

Natural remedies are the best way to cleanse the body. Ubtan which is a medicated mud pack is very good for the skin. It is known as the best body cleanser and was used during the Vedic period. It helps in cleansing the body while making it very soft. This mud pack can be used for any skin types.

Another effective way of taking care of the body is to make homemade masks. Take some sandalwood powder, neem leaf powder, turmeric powder, chickpea powder, almond yogurt and orange peel. Make a mixture of all these and apply it on your body, face and neck. Leave this pack for 15 minutes to dry. Massage gently while rinsing with cold water.

Many girls go for regular waxing to get rid of excess body hair. Instead you can take care of this at home by making a mixture of lemon juice and sugar. This mixture should be heated on low flame till you get thick syrup that looks like honey. Apply this mixture wherever there is excess hair and with the help of strips pull them off. Your skin will be smooth and this would help clear your tan as well. 

Other than these body care tips other ways of taking care of your body is to do regular exercise, eat healthy food and most of all avoid drinking and smoking. It is more important to have a beautiful and healthy body from inside than from the outside.

Hot Body Care for a Beautiful and Healthy Body

Body Care for a Beautiful and Healthy Body

Who doesn’t desire to have a beautiful body? The answer to this question is that every single person would crave to have one. Taking care of your body is as good as applying makeup every day. A beautiful body is all about taking good care of you and there are different ways of doing it. Using cosmetics can only help to beautify you externally but anything natural will keep your body healthy and fresh from within. People follow different methods to have a good body. Below are a few that you can follow to get the desired result.Body Care Tips

If the cause of your problem is excess cellulite then there are ways to take care of this as well. Natural way is the best way to get rid of this problem. Take two drops of fennel essential oils, two drops of rosemary oil and two tablespoons of almond oil. Make a mixture of all these oils and massage every day. This will relieve you from this problem.

The best way to remove makeup is using almond oil. Since it is rich in vitamin E it leaves the skin soft and smooth. It can be used for any skin type and it nourishes the skin really well.

A regular massage with essential oils is known to relieve the body from stress and tension. Massage your body before a shower and take a warm water bath. Your body will get rejuvenated and you’ll feel fresh. This also helps in keeping your body healthy.

People who have dark patches on the face or anywhere on the body can rub a slice of lemon. Lemon helps to lighten the dark patches but remember that if you have sensitive skin, it is not for you.

Natural remedies are the best way to cleanse the body. Ubtan which is a medicated mud pack is very good for the skin. It is known as the best body cleanser and was used during the Vedic period. It helps in cleansing the body while making it very soft. This mud pack can be used for any skin types.

Another effective way of taking care of the body is to make homemade masks. Take some sandalwood powder, neem leaf powder, turmeric powder, chickpea powder, almond yogurt and orange peel. Make a mixture of all these and apply it on your body, face and neck. Leave this pack for 15 minutes to dry. Massage gently while rinsing with cold water.

Many girls go for regular waxing to get rid of excess body hair. Instead you can take care of this at home by making a mixture of lemon juice and sugar. This mixture should be heated on low flame till you get thick syrup that looks like honey. Apply this mixture wherever there is excess hair and with the help of strips pull them off. Your skin will be smooth and this would help clear your tan as well. 

Other than these body care tips other ways of taking care of your body is to do regular exercise, eat healthy food and most of all avoid drinking and smoking. It is more important to have a beautiful and healthy body from inside than from the outside.

Exams, Bloggers and Poll

I'm not sure how many of you know but I have my exams coming up next month, and that's why there has been a decline in postings lately. I really can't believe I'm going to be sitting for exams again, feels just like yesterday when I did my last post about taking a break from blogging.

C&B and PFL are going to remain this way till about the last week of July, but I am not entirely sure. However it is a for gone surety that I will resume posting regularly in August. As for GPY!!! the same fate is going to be presenting itself however I shall be surfacing to post the Formspring questions given to me in June. The post is all ready in the drafts. If anybody has any questions to ask me, there is still time.

It sucks to be studying right now, especially since almost everyone I know is on vacations and is having a complete ball. A few things however still make me pick my chin off the ground, such as gym and Josh. I used to go regularly to my earlier gym, but I had no trainer. This time around I got one and he's fantastic. I dropped 5 kgs in a month and 2 inches off my waist. I'm putting the hunk back in Phunk!

Oh and in case you are thinking that somehow I am doing this for Josh, you can't be more wrong. I'm doing this for myself. I'm doing this to be healthy, and while I can not see the results myself I have been getting comments from people around me that I have lost weight. Yeah, I'm weird in the sense that I do not think I have lost weight even when the scale says that I have. Ever Mr. Ridiculous!

With summer over us in full bloom, I'm extremely sorry that I will not be able to entertain you. However I'm leaving you in the capable hands of some Pakistani gay bloggers that I have come across. Some are old, some are new. Some are still active, some have come to a halt for now. But perhaps increased traffic would get them to start posting again.

I have posted about this blog before, but I think he definitely deserves a mention. I'm a huge fan of his writing, and I really do hope that he starts posting again soon. He took a break for his exams, and from what he told me the break paid off. His exams went well. I'm hoping that a few of you could light his fire and get him to post some new material. My very good friend Aaron Khan's blog, Life.....A Constant Battle.

This blog is relatively new, and unfortunately he's been slow on postings recently. I really like the whole theme of his blog and I'm pretty sure alot of gay guys out there would be able to identify with his life events. He's done four posts till now, and they're all pretty good. I would advice you to take caution as his posts tend to leave one a little light headed from the blood rushes to other parts of the body. And I really do not understand his fascination with the letter 'T'. The What-Not-To-Do Blog for the Average Queer Slut by Average Queer Slut.

Taste Some Gay Salt by Branden was one of my every day clicks last summer. The author of the blog has disappeared off the grid, however he still logs on to the blog time to time. Perhaps a quick E-mail can inspire him to start writing once again. Some of his posts have truly made me envious of his writing style, take this for example.

Not that I am partial towards Karachi, but whenever I come across a gay blogger from Karachi I can't help but scream in ecstasy. And I am quite sure I shattered a few glasses when I came across Feel-o-Rama by Ayaan Khan. I'm not a fan of reading Roman Urdu. But I read his poetry even through all that, cuz they're that good. You simply can't miss out on him.

Fallen Angel is new to the world of blogosphere, and he definitely deserves a spot on the list. I have read his work and I would say that he's got a few tricks up his sleeve. As writers, we put our souls into our works and his blog clearly show that. You can check him out at The World Around Me.

Fallen Angel may put his soul into his work, just like me and many others. But only a few can actually carve a blog out of their soul. Closeted has completely mastered that art, and his writings have possibly moved me the most. I was actually very surprised when I came across his blog on Manjam, but I'm so definitely glad that I did. Especially since he deleted his Manjam ID a day later. His postings are a few and far, but they're so damn good. Also he doesn't resort to cheap under table mechanics like sexy pictures. If you want to get to know a gay man who truly values commitment, The Closeted Blog is the place to go.

The last blog quite possibly needs no introduction. His writings have appeared in various LGBT magazines of the Indian SubContinent, and his LGBT Awareness zeal matches nobody else that I have ever come to know personally. Just like everybody he's had his share of heartbreak, but he wears every one of those scars beautifully. The blog may be titled Confessions of an Imperfect Man, but he really does capture the essence of perfection in the sense that he accepts every form of diversity. The creation of the evil (Kidd'in) Mastermind Hadi Hussain, Confession of an Imperfect Man.

These are all I have for now!

I'm hoping that the next time my exams come around there are more blogs to show case, so if you are planning to start one or want to - DO IT ASAP!

Also if you remember I did a post on how age preference. I missed out on the option "Don't care", so I created a new poll. If you haven't responded to the poll yet, I'd like it very much if you do it now. I hated deleting the previous post but I do believe that there exist guys who do not care about age at all, and I just had to know how many people felt this way. 

Exams, Bloggers and Poll

I'm not sure how many of you know but I have my exams coming up next month, and that's why there has been a decline in postings lately. I really can't believe I'm going to be sitting for exams again, feels just like yesterday when I did my last post about taking a break from blogging.

C&B and PFL are going to remain this way till about the last week of July, but I am not entirely sure. However it is a for gone surety that I will resume posting regularly in August. As for GPY!!! the same fate is going to be presenting itself however I shall be surfacing to post the Formspring questions given to me in June. The post is all ready in the drafts. If anybody has any questions to ask me, there is still time.

It sucks to be studying right now, especially since almost everyone I know is on vacations and is having a complete ball. A few things however still make me pick my chin off the ground, such as gym and Josh. I used to go regularly to my earlier gym, but I had no trainer. This time around I got one and he's fantastic. I dropped 5 kgs in a month and 2 inches off my waist. I'm putting the hunk back in Phunk!

Oh and in case you are thinking that somehow I am doing this for Josh, you can't be more wrong. I'm doing this for myself. I'm doing this to be healthy, and while I can not see the results myself I have been getting comments from people around me that I have lost weight. Yeah, I'm weird in the sense that I do not think I have lost weight even when the scale says that I have. Ever Mr. Ridiculous!

With summer over us in full bloom, I'm extremely sorry that I will not be able to entertain you. However I'm leaving you in the capable hands of some Pakistani gay bloggers that I have come across. Some are old, some are new. Some are still active, some have come to a halt for now. But perhaps increased traffic would get them to start posting again.

I have posted about this blog before, but I think he definitely deserves a mention. I'm a huge fan of his writing, and I really do hope that he starts posting again soon. He took a break for his exams, and from what he told me the break paid off. His exams went well. I'm hoping that a few of you could light his fire and get him to post some new material. My very good friend Aaron Khan's blog, Life.....A Constant Battle.

This blog is relatively new, and unfortunately he's been slow on postings recently. I really like the whole theme of his blog and I'm pretty sure alot of gay guys out there would be able to identify with his life events. He's done four posts till now, and they're all pretty good. I would advice you to take caution as his posts tend to leave one a little light headed from the blood rushes to other parts of the body. And I really do not understand his fascination with the letter 'T'. The What-Not-To-Do Blog for the Average Queer Slut by Average Queer Slut.

Taste Some Gay Salt by Branden was one of my every day clicks last summer. The author of the blog has disappeared off the grid, however he still logs on to the blog time to time. Perhaps a quick E-mail can inspire him to start writing once again. Some of his posts have truly made me envious of his writing style, take this for example.

Not that I am partial towards Karachi, but whenever I come across a gay blogger from Karachi I can't help but scream in ecstasy. And I am quite sure I shattered a few glasses when I came across Feel-o-Rama by Ayaan Khan. I'm not a fan of reading Roman Urdu. But I read his poetry even through all that, cuz they're that good. You simply can't miss out on him.

Fallen Angel is new to the world of blogosphere, and he definitely deserves a spot on the list. I have read his work and I would say that he's got a few tricks up his sleeve. As writers, we put our souls into our works and his blog clearly show that. You can check him out at The World Around Me.

Fallen Angel may put his soul into his work, just like me and many others. But only a few can actually carve a blog out of their soul. Closeted has completely mastered that art, and his writings have possibly moved me the most. I was actually very surprised when I came across his blog on Manjam, but I'm so definitely glad that I did. Especially since he deleted his Manjam ID a day later. His postings are a few and far, but they're so damn good. Also he doesn't resort to cheap under table mechanics like sexy pictures. If you want to get to know a gay man who truly values commitment, The Closeted Blog is the place to go.

The last blog quite possibly needs no introduction. His writings have appeared in various LGBT magazines of the Indian SubContinent, and his LGBT Awareness zeal matches nobody else that I have ever come to know personally. Just like everybody he's had his share of heartbreak, but he wears every one of those scars beautifully. The blog may be titled Confessions of an Imperfect Man, but he really does capture the essence of perfection in the sense that he accepts every form of diversity. The creation of the evil (Kidd'in) Mastermind Hadi Hussain, Confession of an Imperfect Man.

These are all I have for now!

I'm hoping that the next time my exams come around there are more blogs to show case, so if you are planning to start one or want to - DO IT ASAP!

Also if you remember I did a post on how age preference. I missed out on the option "Don't care", so I created a new poll. If you haven't responded to the poll yet, I'd like it very much if you do it now. I hated deleting the previous post but I do believe that there exist guys who do not care about age at all, and I just had to know how many people felt this way. 

Nothing But Cute and Happy

When browsing Online I can talk with the best of them and probably do it better than most. But my balloon pops when it comes to showing my picture. I'm not the sexiest or the hottest guy you'll ever meet. As I have said in the blog before, the word 'cute' is generally used to describe me. And I don't mind it much.

What can I do?

I was born this way, baby!

One of my earliest memories is from 1st Grade when my Urdu language teacher pinched my cheek and told me how cute I am. Later it was my 3rd and 4th Grade teacher. I think my 5th Grade teacher said something as well, but I don't quite remember it. I was her prize pupil, which I remember clearly. Then I changed schools and my new school gave me the same treatment. For some reason, people loved pulling my cheek. Josh commented on it once as well that I have very 'pullable' cheeks and he's not the only one to say so. There have been others as well. So I had this fact down long before I even stepped into the Online world of cruising.

But now that I came here, the rules of the game drastically changed my perception. I contacted guys and some of them responded back. Sometimes I would get a message out of the blue from some guy who seemed genuinely interested. Everything went smooth and fine up till the time came to show my pictures. Except for the few that I have went out with, the rest either always stopped talking to me or changed in how the would respond to my messages. They didn't need to say it, I knew it already.

It used to bother me so much that I can't put it to words. I could have objected to their dark skin tone, acne, unkempt hair, slight belly or the double chin under development. But I didn't. As much as sometimes I feel repulsed by how someone looks, I do give them a chance to prove themselves as something more. Personality is far more important. What's the use of having a model material boyfriend if he doesn't give you respect?!

I have never asked for model looks but somehow have been blessed with such given my previous boyfriends, Bruce and Nathan. I realized that my problem really has no solution since nearly every guy out there has a six-pack check box on their check list. I resigned to being friends with what I could get and that worked for me. But just for a while!

"Why don't you put up your face picture?", Ryan suggested one day when I told him about my dilemma. "Sometimes guys you never thought would be interested in you, actually do stop for a second look at your profile and things can go somewhere."

"I know, but I can't take that risk. At least not while I am in Pakistan!", I told Ryan. I didn't tell Ryan that my rejection could possibly be due to the junk in my trunk - not that kind!

Then one day while randomly browsing, I was hit with a brilliant but a tad bit desperate idea. I wanted to check that if there was actually something wrong with me so I made a completely new profile. Every single detail on the profile was the same as my original profile. I didn't even change a single word in my 'About Me' section. The only difference between these two profiles was that the new profile held several of my face pictures - the same that I used on my other profiles except that they were hidden and could be only viewed if I allowed  the other person to see them. The other difference was the location. This profile didn't state my true location Pakistan. I put down United Kingdom.

Later when I logged on at night, I was actually surprised to see quite a few responses. They were the usual but still a response is a response. These people were fine with how I looked, and some even took the time to read my profile and respond keenly. I added them on messengers and chatted with some of them. These guys liked me. They really did like me!

I changed my profile location to 'Egypt' and got similar result. I didn't exactly get Harem quality but I am not looking for that either. These guys were decent, educated, looking for commitment and good looking enough to turn me on. Why should I care if none of them have the potential to grace Men's Health covers?!

All this was good, but why do I keep striking out in my homeland?!

Could it be because I look Indian and that's something of a rarity in United Kingdom and Egypt?

Certainly not!

So as a last try, I changed my location to 'Bangladesh' and from the meager population that resided there, I got a few responses. One guy really stood above the rest and I really could not believe that he was interested in me. He kept asking for my phone number which I obviously couldn't give him, but I later got an opportunity to talk to him on phone which I will post about later sometime.

But all this proved to me that I look okay if not good. I don't need to worry about how I look, the problem doesn't lie in me. God blessed me with a fully functioning body and I should be happy about it. I should not let my opinion on myself be changed by some guys. It lies in the minds of these guys, and if this is their criteria of judgment then it's a good thing that they kicked me to the curb.

I am not hesitant in sharing my picture anymore. If anybody likes me they have excellent taste and those who don't approve of me, they are welcome to walk around with a stick up their asses. 

Nothing But Cute and Happy

When browsing Online I can talk with the best of them and probably do it better than most. But my balloon pops when it comes to showing my picture. I'm not the sexiest or the hottest guy you'll ever meet. As I have said in the blog before, the word 'cute' is generally used to describe me. And I don't mind it much.

What can I do?

I was born this way, baby!

One of my earliest memories is from 1st Grade when my Urdu language teacher pinched my cheek and told me how cute I am. Later it was my 3rd and 4th Grade teacher. I think my 5th Grade teacher said something as well, but I don't quite remember it. I was her prize pupil, which I remember clearly. Then I changed schools and my new school gave me the same treatment. For some reason, people loved pulling my cheek. Josh commented on it once as well that I have very 'pullable' cheeks and he's not the only one to say so. There have been others as well. So I had this fact down long before I even stepped into the Online world of cruising.

But now that I came here, the rules of the game drastically changed my perception. I contacted guys and some of them responded back. Sometimes I would get a message out of the blue from some guy who seemed genuinely interested. Everything went smooth and fine up till the time came to show my pictures. Except for the few that I have went out with, the rest either always stopped talking to me or changed in how the would respond to my messages. They didn't need to say it, I knew it already.

It used to bother me so much that I can't put it to words. I could have objected to their dark skin tone, acne, unkempt hair, slight belly or the double chin under development. But I didn't. As much as sometimes I feel repulsed by how someone looks, I do give them a chance to prove themselves as something more. Personality is far more important. What's the use of having a model material boyfriend if he doesn't give you respect?!

I have never asked for model looks but somehow have been blessed with such given my previous boyfriends, Bruce and Nathan. I realized that my problem really has no solution since nearly every guy out there has a six-pack check box on their check list. I resigned to being friends with what I could get and that worked for me. But just for a while!

"Why don't you put up your face picture?", Ryan suggested one day when I told him about my dilemma. "Sometimes guys you never thought would be interested in you, actually do stop for a second look at your profile and things can go somewhere."

"I know, but I can't take that risk. At least not while I am in Pakistan!", I told Ryan. I didn't tell Ryan that my rejection could possibly be due to the junk in my trunk - not that kind!

Then one day while randomly browsing, I was hit with a brilliant but a tad bit desperate idea. I wanted to check that if there was actually something wrong with me so I made a completely new profile. Every single detail on the profile was the same as my original profile. I didn't even change a single word in my 'About Me' section. The only difference between these two profiles was that the new profile held several of my face pictures - the same that I used on my other profiles except that they were hidden and could be only viewed if I allowed  the other person to see them. The other difference was the location. This profile didn't state my true location Pakistan. I put down United Kingdom.

Later when I logged on at night, I was actually surprised to see quite a few responses. They were the usual but still a response is a response. These people were fine with how I looked, and some even took the time to read my profile and respond keenly. I added them on messengers and chatted with some of them. These guys liked me. They really did like me!

I changed my profile location to 'Egypt' and got similar result. I didn't exactly get Harem quality but I am not looking for that either. These guys were decent, educated, looking for commitment and good looking enough to turn me on. Why should I care if none of them have the potential to grace Men's Health covers?!

All this was good, but why do I keep striking out in my homeland?!

Could it be because I look Indian and that's something of a rarity in United Kingdom and Egypt?

Certainly not!

So as a last try, I changed my location to 'Bangladesh' and from the meager population that resided there, I got a few responses. One guy really stood above the rest and I really could not believe that he was interested in me. He kept asking for my phone number which I obviously couldn't give him, but I later got an opportunity to talk to him on phone which I will post about later sometime.

But all this proved to me that I look okay if not good. I don't need to worry about how I look, the problem doesn't lie in me. God blessed me with a fully functioning body and I should be happy about it. I should not let my opinion on myself be changed by some guys. It lies in the minds of these guys, and if this is their criteria of judgment then it's a good thing that they kicked me to the curb.

I am not hesitant in sharing my picture anymore. If anybody likes me they have excellent taste and those who don't approve of me, they are welcome to walk around with a stick up their asses. 

Finding Beauty

We don't love people because they are beautiful. They are beautiful because we love them.

- Anonymous

I couldn't agree more with this amazing quote. People are beautiful because we love them. It does make sense when we tend to look at a couple where one of the two is unattractive and the other is va-va-voom material. I have heard so many people commenting that exact thing about Sean and Heidi Klum. "What does SHE see in HIM?", they all say. The two have one of the longest standing marriages in the history of tinsel town, and it's still going amazing. They're one of the 'It' couples in my opinion. I wish the two of them the best always!

Beauty does play a huge part in any relationship. After all you have to be attracted to your partner otherwise you would never really be interested in him or her. But in reality, it isn't as much of an issue that people make it to be.

When two people fall in love and I mean truly fall in love, they truly do love each other. Warts, moles, love handles, crazy eyes or whatever. Nothing like that really matters then. You have found that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You don't bloody care if he looks like the donkey's behind!

Sensibly speaking, beauty also should not count for that much. Would you have that 36-24-36 your entire life? Would you always have those steel abs? Would you always have those wavy black hair? Probably down there, but definitely not up here!

People age! People age constantly, but none of that really matters. When you get to grow old with a person, you learn so much about him or her that you start appreciating them for what they really are. And that's so much more than what any set of perfect abs or amazing bust can account for!

Just imagine, two people growing old together. They spend an entire lifetime together. As their hair go from jet-black to platinum white, they have made so many memories together and been through so much. They remember all those moments when they held each other hands and witnessed the sun setting. They remember the time when they welcomed somebody into their family. They remember the days when one of them was sick and the other stood by till he or she felt all better. The holidays! The anniversaries! The vows! Stuff which truly matters.

When any couple reaches that age, they find beauty in the tiniest wrinkles, the silver hair, the gentle fingers. Beauty doesn't always mean a 36-24-36 figure or a chiseled chest. Also I don't know if you have noticed, many people who have these things tend to think too much of themselves and are complete jack-asses. The saying "If you've got it, flaunt it!" is literally abused silly by them! And if your must-have list has anything like that in the list, would you dump the person if he or she looses their sexy figure?

Then you're not a very nice person, my friend!

Beauty is merely a tool to help people get their. It should not be the bag. Same goes for sex! It's one aspect of a relationship. You're entire philosophy of a relationship shouldn't be based on it. What would you rather have?

Someone honest, loving, caring but average looking or someone dishonest, vengeful, negative but sexy?

In hindsight, both Bruce and Nathan are ordinary looking guys. But it was the fact that I was in love with them, that made them so frigg'in sexy. Probably some of my earlier readers remember the post in which I mentioned how I found Nathan's thighs sexy. Now who does that?

Somebody in love. That's the person who finds things like thighs sexy! I have never been a fan of long hair on guys. Especially long hair being pulled all the way back, but Nathan always styled them like that and I absolutely loved them. Same with Bruce, I was a fan of smooth twinkish bums. But Bruce's bum was nothing like that. Firm, solid and slightly fuzzy! Theoretically speaking, I should have not found that appealing. But in reality, I loved those buns from Heaven!

Maybe the age old saying about love being blind is true after all!

------------------------------------------------

I was meaning to post this sometime but I decided to specially post this today after an email from a reader on how I was promoting underwear model figure through my blog.

Buddy, I'm seriously not promoting any particular figure. I post these pictures because they're nice to look at and nothing more. It doesn't mean I want these men in my life! It doesn't mean I want men to look like them! Even if I don't post, would people stop striving for the perfect mid-section or those chiseled pecs or a sculpted back? No! People like to look good, but people should also know that they can't always look good.

I'm very ordinary looking and I like ordinary looking men. As long as you're healthy, you're good. Besides just because you can't have a Prada bag, doesn't mean you can not look at it!

I have a friend who thinks he's ugly and not at all good looking. In my opinion, he's very good looking. Tall, dark and handsome, if I may add are the perfect words to describe him. Had I not been his friend, I would have definitely made every possible attempt to get into his pants. If I have to say it out loud in public to him, I would not hesitate for a second.

It's true; You do not love people because they are beautiful. They are beautiful because you love them!

I believe I've said too much and may have bored you all, so I'm going to take my leave. Taking a page out of my new blogger friend El Disorientido, I'm going to be closing on one of my favorite song's of all time. This song has always touched me and always bought a smile to my face.

Finding Beauty

We don't love people because they are beautiful. They are beautiful because we love them.

- Anonymous

I couldn't agree more with this amazing quote. People are beautiful because we love them. It does make sense when we tend to look at a couple where one of the two is unattractive and the other is va-va-voom material. I have heard so many people commenting that exact thing about Sean and Heidi Klum. "What does SHE see in HIM?", they all say. The two have one of the longest standing marriages in the history of tinsel town, and it's still going amazing. They're one of the 'It' couples in my opinion. I wish the two of them the best always!

Beauty does play a huge part in any relationship. After all you have to be attracted to your partner otherwise you would never really be interested in him or her. But in reality, it isn't as much of an issue that people make it to be.

When two people fall in love and I mean truly fall in love, they truly do love each other. Warts, moles, love handles, crazy eyes or whatever. Nothing like that really matters then. You have found that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with. You don't bloody care if he looks like the donkey's behind!

Sensibly speaking, beauty also should not count for that much. Would you have that 36-24-36 your entire life? Would you always have those steel abs? Would you always have those wavy black hair? Probably down there, but definitely not up here!

People age! People age constantly, but none of that really matters. When you get to grow old with a person, you learn so much about him or her that you start appreciating them for what they really are. And that's so much more than what any set of perfect abs or amazing bust can account for!

Just imagine, two people growing old together. They spend an entire lifetime together. As their hair go from jet-black to platinum white, they have made so many memories together and been through so much. They remember all those moments when they held each other hands and witnessed the sun setting. They remember the time when they welcomed somebody into their family. They remember the days when one of them was sick and the other stood by till he or she felt all better. The holidays! The anniversaries! The vows! Stuff which truly matters.

When any couple reaches that age, they find beauty in the tiniest wrinkles, the silver hair, the gentle fingers. Beauty doesn't always mean a 36-24-36 figure or a chiseled chest. Also I don't know if you have noticed, many people who have these things tend to think too much of themselves and are complete jack-asses. The saying "If you've got it, flaunt it!" is literally abused silly by them! And if your must-have list has anything like that in the list, would you dump the person if he or she looses their sexy figure?

Then you're not a very nice person, my friend!

Beauty is merely a tool to help people get their. It should not be the bag. Same goes for sex! It's one aspect of a relationship. You're entire philosophy of a relationship shouldn't be based on it. What would you rather have?

Someone honest, loving, caring but average looking or someone dishonest, vengeful, negative but sexy?

In hindsight, both Bruce and Nathan are ordinary looking guys. But it was the fact that I was in love with them, that made them so frigg'in sexy. Probably some of my earlier readers remember the post in which I mentioned how I found Nathan's thighs sexy. Now who does that?

Somebody in love. That's the person who finds things like thighs sexy! I have never been a fan of long hair on guys. Especially long hair being pulled all the way back, but Nathan always styled them like that and I absolutely loved them. Same with Bruce, I was a fan of smooth twinkish bums. But Bruce's bum was nothing like that. Firm, solid and slightly fuzzy! Theoretically speaking, I should have not found that appealing. But in reality, I loved those buns from Heaven!

Maybe the age old saying about love being blind is true after all!

------------------------------------------------

I was meaning to post this sometime but I decided to specially post this today after an email from a reader on how I was promoting underwear model figure through my blog.

Buddy, I'm seriously not promoting any particular figure. I post these pictures because they're nice to look at and nothing more. It doesn't mean I want these men in my life! It doesn't mean I want men to look like them! Even if I don't post, would people stop striving for the perfect mid-section or those chiseled pecs or a sculpted back? No! People like to look good, but people should also know that they can't always look good.

I'm very ordinary looking and I like ordinary looking men. As long as you're healthy, you're good. Besides just because you can't have a Prada bag, doesn't mean you can not look at it!

I have a friend who thinks he's ugly and not at all good looking. In my opinion, he's very good looking. Tall, dark and handsome, if I may add are the perfect words to describe him. Had I not been his friend, I would have definitely made every possible attempt to get into his pants. If I have to say it out loud in public to him, I would not hesitate for a second.

It's true; You do not love people because they are beautiful. They are beautiful because you love them!

I believe I've said too much and may have bored you all, so I'm going to take my leave. Taking a page out of my new blogger friend El Disorientido, I'm going to be closing on one of my favorite song's of all time. This song has always touched me and always bought a smile to my face.

Commitments and Resolutions

I do not believe in telling what I have resolved about. Firstly because I feel if you tell a resolution, it's liable to be broken easily. Secondly if a certain resolution of mine does break, nobody around me would really know about it. On the other hand if not told or recorded, they are very often forgotten. I want that when 2012 starts and this blog is still up and running strong I can do a post about how I fared with my resolutions. Already planning future posts, does that make me a visionary?

01. Stay Single - Believe it or not, this is actually my resolution. I need to stay single this year, or at least for as long as possible. It's going to be a really hard task since my heart seems to search for a boyfriend in just about every gay/bi guy I talk to. Also since I'm over Nathan, it's going to take even more of me not to rush into anything.

02. Date Guys - Now I realize that I may have confused you all abit by contradicting myself. But it's not like that. I do plan to stay single and date guys at the same time. I plan to meet them over a cup of coffee. I'd like to see what's out there and how do I fare against them. Coffee & Boys; my two favorite things of 2011!

03. Learn to Cook - I'm absolutely horrible at cooking. Absolutely horrible! I won't even invite my worst enemies over for a meal that I have cooked myself. Nobody deserves to die from indigestion. I really need to learn how to cook. My coffee making skills is a perfect recipe for battery acid. To be perfectly honest, the only thing I know how to make are those 2 minute noodles and frozen foods that just need to be fried. Yeah, I'm that bad!

04. Get Fit - I left the gym a little before my exams. It was getting too hard for me to manage my preparation and exercise schedule at the same time. I've rejoined the gym, infact I had my first session with weights today. Also I'm looking forward to learn swimming. I finally found a crystal clear pool that's uncontaminated from unpleasantness. Plus the swimming instructors are so hot. You could grate cheese off their abs!

05. Be Funnier - Am I fun enough? I believe I can be abit of a wet blanket at times. So this year it's about being more spontaneous, more risky, more adventurous - I think this would be the hardest one to do as it's something you are born with and not something you learn. Like Ryan, he's naturally fun!

06. Pray More Regularly - I was watching a religious talk show the other day. Something the host said is stuck in my head. I can't recall the exact words but he meant to say that when God calls us for prayers and we don't answer, how do we expect Him to answer to us when we call for Him?. I have started praying since past Ramadan, but I tend to skip some of the prayers at times. I need to start praying regularly. Pray 5 outta 5 times!

07. Blog Better! Blog More! - Although this is my resolution, I need help from you guys (My Readers ) on this one. I have a good deal of posts planned that I will be posting sooner or later, and certain topics I'd like to talk about. But if you have anything in particular you'd like me to post about or if you want to do a guest post, be my guest. Credit will be completely yours, I'll just be posting it for you. Everybody's welcome!

08. I'm Gay - Come out of the closet to a few important people. I have made an actual list. Right now, it contains 6 people. If I can manage to come out to all of them, it'll be a good year. If I manage to come out to all of them and not loose any, it'll be a great year.

09. Take a Trip this Summer - Go somewhere! Go anywhere! Go alone! Go with someone! Just go - as simple as that! ( I'm hoping for Canada really bad!)

10. Make some Lesbian friends - Where are all the girls? I'm seriously hanging from my last thread of hope. I need a heroine to save me!

That's my list! 

Let's see how many I manage to keep and how many do I fall short for. Oh and 2011 if you're listening, please be nice to me! I promise I'll only have nice things to say about you to 2012! :D