For an Hour or Forever

We may be gay, but we're still men. Men are physical creatures. Therefore we want sex, we need sex, we enjoy sex and we love sex. While we may not enjoy the awesome feature of multiple orgasms like our female counterparts( Darn it!) but that doesn't hold us back from having fun and getting dirty.

There is a very popular saying that women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place. To a large extent, I agree with it. Why else in most hook up messages I have gotten since the beginning of time has the other guy mentioning that he has a place or asking if I have one. One person has even gone so far to ask me if he could have my place for a few hours to have sex. There is no denying that men love having sex. Another proof of this fact is that males tends to think about sex after every six or seven seconds.

We're hormonal. Get over it!

Alot of the guys I know; even straight ones, have engaged in some form of sexual activity. While not completely acceptable, it is perfectly normal. However to those who haven't, that's quite normal as well and I actually commend you guys for holding on to yourselves. Bravo!

But what about gay guys? Does a gay guy have a more healthy sexual aura around him? Does a gay guy get laid more often? Does a gay guy have a larger appetite for sex?

My answers to the above would be maybe, yes and no. Maybe we do have a healthier sexual aura surrounding ourselves. Yes I do believe a gay guy gets more sex than a straight guy, but no - our appetite for sex is no more than your average straight guy. But then why do we get laid more often?

Could it be because there is no chance of anybody getting bloated? Perhaps! And quite obviously, we don't have the time of the month situation which our fairer counterparts do( Thank Heavens!). But above all that, I think it's the thought process. With many people not looking for committed but an easy lay, one could take a shot at a particular guy he likes and there is a very good chance that he would be available for some rub-a-dub.

Before Internet hit the world like crazy people hit the stores on Black Friday, some bar or dark shady place was the only place to pick up guys. Absolutely no relationship potential material could be found according to me, if somebody has some story that could change my belief please hit me with an E-mail. If you happen to know people who knew people, you could get invited to some exclusive party. But with everyone locked up tightly in their closets, nothing much happened besides scratching that itch. With the advent of Internet followed services like instant messaging, social networking, cam 2 cam and the latest geosocial conscious facilities have made it ever so easier for the average Joe to send a few messages and get laid faster than you could say 'Karamba!'.

Cell phones have allowed more privacy as two guys could talk as much as they want and make arrangement without anybody finding out what's going on. Everything has become so easy and available that it's a wonder how people can remain celibate. I'm quite probably the biggest closeted slut ever!

I can not put into words how much I feel like jumping the bones of some random dude's profile just to get off. It's the same with a few of my friends. It's nothing short of a miracle that my record has not been tainted yet. Although I would confess that I almost hooked up one day but freaked out at the last second and backed off. However that didn't end up in a good way either, and that's a different post altogether.

I got nothing against guys who like to have sex. Absolutely nothing! It's your life and you are completely entitled to do what you want. I won't even tell you something like 'You all will go to Hell' because that is not for me to decide and I'm no saint either. I myself feel this itch myself and the need to scratch it drives me insane. I do a great Cooter impression when I'm horny! :P

At the end of the decision is completely yours, but just ask yourself do I want someone for just a hour or forever?, and be absolutely sure of the answer.

Ted just got committed and his new boyfriend has quite an impressive record of lays. Ted does have feelings for him but the trust isn't quite there yet. I talked to Ted today and yesterday, because of the issue of there being no trust Ted is thinking of breaking up with him. I tried to talk sense into Ted telling him that he should stick around but be on guard. Time will solve the trust issue hopefully but Ted is still very skeptical about it. To be perfectly honest, I am scared that he may get hurt. But if I was in his shoes, I would take a chance if I really liked this guy.

Lastly if you are into random sex, at least learn to be careful. Even if you are in a committed relationship, always have safe sex!

For an Hour or Forever

We may be gay, but we're still men. Men are physical creatures. Therefore we want sex, we need sex, we enjoy sex and we love sex. While we may not enjoy the awesome feature of multiple orgasms like our female counterparts( Darn it!) but that doesn't hold us back from having fun and getting dirty.

There is a very popular saying that women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place. To a large extent, I agree with it. Why else in most hook up messages I have gotten since the beginning of time has the other guy mentioning that he has a place or asking if I have one. One person has even gone so far to ask me if he could have my place for a few hours to have sex. There is no denying that men love having sex. Another proof of this fact is that males tends to think about sex after every six or seven seconds.

We're hormonal. Get over it!

Alot of the guys I know; even straight ones, have engaged in some form of sexual activity. While not completely acceptable, it is perfectly normal. However to those who haven't, that's quite normal as well and I actually commend you guys for holding on to yourselves. Bravo!

But what about gay guys? Does a gay guy have a more healthy sexual aura around him? Does a gay guy get laid more often? Does a gay guy have a larger appetite for sex?

My answers to the above would be maybe, yes and no. Maybe we do have a healthier sexual aura surrounding ourselves. Yes I do believe a gay guy gets more sex than a straight guy, but no - our appetite for sex is no more than your average straight guy. But then why do we get laid more often?

Could it be because there is no chance of anybody getting bloated? Perhaps! And quite obviously, we don't have the time of the month situation which our fairer counterparts do( Thank Heavens!). But above all that, I think it's the thought process. With many people not looking for committed but an easy lay, one could take a shot at a particular guy he likes and there is a very good chance that he would be available for some rub-a-dub.

Before Internet hit the world like crazy people hit the stores on Black Friday, some bar or dark shady place was the only place to pick up guys. Absolutely no relationship potential material could be found according to me, if somebody has some story that could change my belief please hit me with an E-mail. If you happen to know people who knew people, you could get invited to some exclusive party. But with everyone locked up tightly in their closets, nothing much happened besides scratching that itch. With the advent of Internet followed services like instant messaging, social networking, cam 2 cam and the latest geosocial conscious facilities have made it ever so easier for the average Joe to send a few messages and get laid faster than you could say 'Karamba!'.

Cell phones have allowed more privacy as two guys could talk as much as they want and make arrangement without anybody finding out what's going on. Everything has become so easy and available that it's a wonder how people can remain celibate. I'm quite probably the biggest closeted slut ever!

I can not put into words how much I feel like jumping the bones of some random dude's profile just to get off. It's the same with a few of my friends. It's nothing short of a miracle that my record has not been tainted yet. Although I would confess that I almost hooked up one day but freaked out at the last second and backed off. However that didn't end up in a good way either, and that's a different post altogether.

I got nothing against guys who like to have sex. Absolutely nothing! It's your life and you are completely entitled to do what you want. I won't even tell you something like 'You all will go to Hell' because that is not for me to decide and I'm no saint either. I myself feel this itch myself and the need to scratch it drives me insane. I do a great Cooter impression when I'm horny! :P

At the end of the decision is completely yours, but just ask yourself do I want someone for just a hour or forever?, and be absolutely sure of the answer.

Ted just got committed and his new boyfriend has quite an impressive record of lays. Ted does have feelings for him but the trust isn't quite there yet. I talked to Ted today and yesterday, because of the issue of there being no trust Ted is thinking of breaking up with him. I tried to talk sense into Ted telling him that he should stick around but be on guard. Time will solve the trust issue hopefully but Ted is still very skeptical about it. To be perfectly honest, I am scared that he may get hurt. But if I was in his shoes, I would take a chance if I really liked this guy.

Lastly if you are into random sex, at least learn to be careful. Even if you are in a committed relationship, always have safe sex!

A Series Of Unfortunate Events

Many of you are probably aware that my exams are up next week( Though that doesn't seem from how frequently I'm blogging LOL ), anyhow exams means no fun. No fun means no romance. No romance means no Nathan. And no Nathan basically means *ML!

I told Nathan about that the past Thursday and he wasn't happy about it at all. But he understood that it was something that needed to be done after I explained that I'm not freaking out.

You see on Wednesday, I dared to nudge a certain topic had been bugging me since the past few days; Safe Sex! I didn't have the nerve to bring it up. Talking about sex is really awkward, especially if your chatting through some messenger. When you type what you say, there is no voice pattern or facial expression involved. People can read your sentences wrong and there can be a whole lot of confusion, but it's something that had to be done. With Bruce, I had initiated the conversation as well. Even though that was on his face, the wasn't any less awkward.

The talk with Nathan revealed some rather saucy details of his past which he wasn't too keen on revealing as he thought they would put him in bad light. Those were the darkest moments in his opinion and he's not proud of them at all. Even telling them was a chore for him. I wasn't mad, infact I found the confessions not really unsettling. It's not they were dark, but it would give people the very wrong impression about him. To put it in his words, he found those acts kind of slutty. But not that much to me, I've heard worse. But from how he looks, one really won't be able to guess that he could be naughty in bed. Damn, I lucked out big time. Nathan rocks!

The conversation went well, but at the end Nathan was worried that he had tarnished his image in my eyes and that I was freaking out about it. I denied it completely, that is the truth. I wasn't freaking out. Hey, I made a guy jerk off on cam when I was 16. Now that is something really freaky!

The conversation ended and we both went to bed - separately, unfortunately. The trouble was that the next day I had to tell them that I won't be able to make it to chat from now on. because I really need to buckle down. My yahoo also was kind of conked out that day and I wasn't getting Nathan's messages on time. I was getting them five minutes late. Nathan immediately assumed that his confession yesterday had freaked me out and I didn't want to talk to him. Upon that he saw some spicy scraps sent by some random freak in my scrapbook and his mind started churning the 'Oh no, he didn't!' thoughts. He was furious at the dude, but he didn't tell me. I had to guess it!

About that idiot, why don't people read?!

My profile clearly states committed on the status, but that doesn't stop him. Maybe he had a committed guys fetish! And it's not like my picture was even up, people really have no brains to say just about anything. And if all that wasn't offensive enough, he spelled 'bottom' wrong. I think that was the biggest turn-off in the whole deal!

Anyhow things got sorted out with Nathan the same night. I convinced him that it really wasn't freaking me out, infact I'm ecstatic that he's accomplished in more ways than I imagined. LOL, he didn't take that compliment to kindly either. And I don't entirely blame him. I never ever give straight lines!

Also another slightly creepy happening this week is that I'm in love with another on of Adam Lambert's song. It's the bonus track from his UK Edition, it's called Voodoo. God, I'm literally orgasming everytime he says voodoo. Also I'm very pissed that the cutie Aaron Kelly was eliminated this week, how could they eliminate him and not Michael Lynch or Casey James! I'm seriously hoping these two go in the coming week and we have a Crystal vs. Lee finale. At least then this season would get an inch of credibility in my book!

Also i saw a picture of SRK snogging some totally hot hunk right on the lips. While I really don't care about SRK, I am feeling bad about the other guy. He's a real hottie and totally out of SRK's league!

I'm not even sure where is it from and if it's photo-cropped or something original. I'm posting it below, what do you think?

You can check it out here! And that's my weekly update...mostly!

A Series Of Unfortunate Events

Many of you are probably aware that my exams are up next week( Though that doesn't seem from how frequently I'm blogging LOL ), anyhow exams means no fun. No fun means no romance. No romance means no Nathan. And no Nathan basically means *ML!

I told Nathan about that the past Thursday and he wasn't happy about it at all. But he understood that it was something that needed to be done after I explained that I'm not freaking out.

You see on Wednesday, I dared to nudge a certain topic had been bugging me since the past few days; Safe Sex! I didn't have the nerve to bring it up. Talking about sex is really awkward, especially if your chatting through some messenger. When you type what you say, there is no voice pattern or facial expression involved. People can read your sentences wrong and there can be a whole lot of confusion, but it's something that had to be done. With Bruce, I had initiated the conversation as well. Even though that was on his face, the wasn't any less awkward.

The talk with Nathan revealed some rather saucy details of his past which he wasn't too keen on revealing as he thought they would put him in bad light. Those were the darkest moments in his opinion and he's not proud of them at all. Even telling them was a chore for him. I wasn't mad, infact I found the confessions not really unsettling. It's not they were dark, but it would give people the very wrong impression about him. To put it in his words, he found those acts kind of slutty. But not that much to me, I've heard worse. But from how he looks, one really won't be able to guess that he could be naughty in bed. Damn, I lucked out big time. Nathan rocks!

The conversation went well, but at the end Nathan was worried that he had tarnished his image in my eyes and that I was freaking out about it. I denied it completely, that is the truth. I wasn't freaking out. Hey, I made a guy jerk off on cam when I was 16. Now that is something really freaky!

The conversation ended and we both went to bed - separately, unfortunately. The trouble was that the next day I had to tell them that I won't be able to make it to chat from now on. because I really need to buckle down. My yahoo also was kind of conked out that day and I wasn't getting Nathan's messages on time. I was getting them five minutes late. Nathan immediately assumed that his confession yesterday had freaked me out and I didn't want to talk to him. Upon that he saw some spicy scraps sent by some random freak in my scrapbook and his mind started churning the 'Oh no, he didn't!' thoughts. He was furious at the dude, but he didn't tell me. I had to guess it!

About that idiot, why don't people read?!

My profile clearly states committed on the status, but that doesn't stop him. Maybe he had a committed guys fetish! And it's not like my picture was even up, people really have no brains to say just about anything. And if all that wasn't offensive enough, he spelled 'bottom' wrong. I think that was the biggest turn-off in the whole deal!

Anyhow things got sorted out with Nathan the same night. I convinced him that it really wasn't freaking me out, infact I'm ecstatic that he's accomplished in more ways than I imagined. LOL, he didn't take that compliment to kindly either. And I don't entirely blame him. I never ever give straight lines!

Also another slightly creepy happening this week is that I'm in love with another on of Adam Lambert's song. It's the bonus track from his UK Edition, it's called Voodoo. God, I'm literally orgasming everytime he says voodoo. Also I'm very pissed that the cutie Aaron Kelly was eliminated this week, how could they eliminate him and not Michael Lynch or Casey James! I'm seriously hoping these two go in the coming week and we have a Crystal vs. Lee finale. At least then this season would get an inch of credibility in my book!

Also i saw a picture of SRK snogging some totally hot hunk right on the lips. While I really don't care about SRK, I am feeling bad about the other guy. He's a real hottie and totally out of SRK's league!

I'm not even sure where is it from and if it's photo-cropped or something original. I'm posting it below, what do you think?

You can check it out here! And that's my weekly update...mostly!