My boyfriend is acting kind of weird these days. Actually he's been acting weird ever since we have started arguing. Our arguing has gotten worse over the period of last few weeks and his recent doings don't give me any hope of things getting better between us. He's not fasting these days. His reason for not fasting is that he's too upset nowadays because of all that's happening between us. I'm confused about what to do with him. Hopefully you can give me some suggestion to sort things out with him. I do like him alot but this attitude of his isn't helping at all!
Your boyfriend is emotionally blackmailing you. Whether he's fasting or not, I can't say. Whatever maybe the actual fact, another truth that is exists here is that you are being emotionally blackmailed. Every couple has arguments. In fact real couples fight! And real couple also sit down and talk, and eventually find a solution to their problem. Real couples don't huff and puff!
You haven't stated the age of your partner, so I'm guessing he must be in his late teens, because only they can pull such an immature move. Even if he's not in his teens, these hits are way below the belt. One thing you need to know and make him remember is the true intention of fasting. We don't fast for the ones we love. We fast for God. It's He who our fasts are accountable to and it's He who will evaluate them. So if your boyfriend is not fasting, you are in no way to blame for it and you should not feel guilty for his actions. Don't loose your cool and explain this little fact of life to him.
The other thing you have mentioned here that your boyfriend needs to know is what his actions are doing to your relationship. Tell him that he's pushing you away and you are starting to get irritated by all his drama. You need to be the mature one right now and get him back on track. Arguments will happen all the time but this is no way to behave. Explain to him gently that he needs to grow up and not be a child. Relationship is grown up business. Kids strictly not allowed!
Hopefully I helped!
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